A different love story

 A different love story 

There was a female locust in one jungle. She smiled and talked with everyone. Therefore she had a lot of friends. One day she saw a fire ball. He was alone in there. The locust look at him from a distance. Then she recognize that he was sad. She felt sorry for him. She wanted to be a good friend of fire. So she went to him and started talking. But he cursed her and drone her away. However, she was not angry with him. The locust came a day after that, even then he blamed her. She does not care about it. She only wants to make him happy. A few days passed like that .after that he do not blame. He listened to her jokes and laughed. Little by little she began to fall in love with him. He also felt the same feeling. But he decided to say it never.

One day…………

Locust- I love you

Fire- but I don’t

Locust- I know you also love me a lot

Fire- I thought we were just friends. That is why I am close to you. I did not love you. as well as I will not do it. Get away from me. I don’t want to see you again

Locust- you lie. I can feel you. You also love me rather than myself.

Fire- no never.

Locust- listen to me. I love you than my life. You know I can’t live a long time. I want to die in your arms. Always remember I love you so much forever.

Suddenly, she hugged kissed him. “No” he shouted. But it was too late and she burned.

She is the only one in this world who has embraced him with love. She is gone now. He cried aloud. He hated himself. He started burning the whole forest. He imagines her face for the last time. The people came and put out the fire.   

My property

 My property

If someone asks me about my property , I do not have any vehicle money or something like that to show them. But I have a lot of things to say about my property. therefore you only can feel it. I just want to find happiness and affection, wherever I go. I have already got a lot of those two. living in such a way like can die happily at any moment is a big challenge. Then we have to be careful about everything we do.

There is no one in this world who does not do wrong. I also do mistakes. but when I realize I did something bad, I do not think twice to apologize for that. However, I have lost no one in my life except those who have lost me. Everyone can not be with us forever. but we can add a beautiful memory to everyone’s life. we do not try to do it. that is why we lost valuable people who make us happy.

I try to love without greed. Therefore my life is full of love.I cherish the beautiful gift that some beautiful people gave me. those are the only physical things I can show as my property.

 

 

 

Grandmother

  

Grandmother

During my advanced level days, I went to Palmadulle for my Sinhala class. one day, I was waiting for a bus with my friends after the class. Then I saw a grandmother was standing near to me with three, heavy bags. She tried to lift them on her own. But they were too heavy for her to lift.so I asked her “may I help mom”. She said nothing. But she smiled at me. I also smiled. I took those bags and asked where I should take them. She pointed to a fruit shop where a short distance from the bus shop. When we got there I saw that every bag was full of bananas. I left the bags and got ready to come back. Then the grandmother lovingly touch my cheek and asked for to give me a banana wrap. at that moment I felt I was dumb. All those words that she told were filled only affection. Because the most valuable thing she had at that time was those bananas. She was kind enough to give me some of it. However, I lovingly refused the request. I took her hand and said goodbye

 

I will never see her again. I do not even remember her face. I tried to remember it several times. But I could not .even so, I will always remember the feeling I felt at that moment.

 

We all think that every human being is bad. That is why we only see the fault of everyone. But those people have something good. Maybe it can be a simple thing. But if we can appreciate those things. They will never forget it for the rest of their life.   

 

My dear teacher

 My dear teacher

I respect every teacher in this world whether they teach me or not. Because teaching is a life-changing job. I have met many kind-hearted teachers in my life. I will meet them in the future also. I love them all. Today I going to tell you about one of my unforgettable teachers who made such a sacrifice for my life. His name is Gunapala Rathnayaka.Today I study at the university of visual and performing arts because of him. He is my first drama teacher. I was in grade nine when he come to our school.

 Every student loves him. Because he is a humble, talented teacher.no matter how mad we worked, he never blamed us. We have won many awards in all island competitions. He hope that one day   I will win the best actress award .but in 2017 he had to retire. Then he got sick. However, he did not stop his drama writing. He created a play in 2018 also. I won the best actress award for that play . but I never thought it would be his last play. I cried a lot when he left this world.

 I still remember him when I see my awards. we all have to leave this world one day.it is a law of nature. so let's try to only make a beautiful memory to for everyone before we go away from them

 

 

My little heroine

  

My little heroine.

There are three thousand students in our school. They are all my sisters. But among them, I had someone special. I love her .as well as I respect her. Because I have learned a lot of things from her life. When I get depressed, I remember the things that she thought. She and I have not talked much. But most days I look at her from a distance. That's how I learned from her about life. She is Kavishka. as I remember she is three years younger than me. she is so pretty. However, she was born without arms and legs.

She is so Lucy. Because she has a strong mother. Every day her mother picked her up and bought her to school if that mother had been weak, my sister’s life would have been different. Amaya is good at learning. Not only can that she draw. She has won some art competitions. I was very happy when she received the prizes on the school stage for those victories. I blessed her all with my heart.

I let Kavishka write on the front page of my memory book before I left school. I never thought she would be so happy about that opportunity. She had drawn a beautiful picture in that book.

 I tried to call her before I wrote this article. , but her number does not work now. Maybe she forgot about me. However she is always been, my little heroine.

 

My story store

 My story store

 I am crazy at reading people in real life rather than reading books. I never get bored of it. Because everyone that I have met is different. as well as people I meet in the future will be different.

 No one in this world is equal. Everyone has both good and bad. I try to cope with both. It is harder than we think. sometimes it hurts a lot.

I have a story to tell about every people who I met. I have many stories now. day by day new stories add to my story store. however, it does not harm the old stories. all those stories have been stored carefully in my mind until I die.

so I want to share some of my stories with you. if you had followed what I said earlier, you would not have had any problem. then you will be able to enjoy my stories.
let us read ourselves.

 

 

How to remove negative thoughts

 How to remove negative thoughts

People think there is a negative thought and positive thought. They want to remove the negative thoughts and have only positive thoughts. If I tell you next ten seconds, just do not think about a monkey, you will see you will be full of monkeys. This is the nature of our minds. Because in this mind you all the three pedals are throttle. There is no brake or clutch. Whatever you touch, it will only go faster.

There is no way you can handle the mind like this.it does not need any great enlightenment. If you spend two minutes with your eyes closed, you will realize, you cannot do anything forcefully with this mind. Because our mind is the most sophisticated computer on this planet. Even all the supercomputers have come out of this

There are no subtractions and divisions in our minds. There is only addition and multiplication. If you try to do something.  It will say “many more”. If you try hard, it will multiply into many more. In this mind, you do not try to identify what is positive, what is negative and try to remove it.

First of all, you must understand that your mind and body are supposed to serve you. I will explain it like this, body and mind are vehicles that must serve us. If you sit in a vehicle, it must go where you want to go. if it goes to its own destination. What is the point of such a vehicle? It's just a nuisance. You need to pay little attention to your mind. It is important to you focus on this fundamental sense of aliveness within you. Then you will see there is a natural distance between you and your thought process. Once there is a distance between your psychological process and your physical process. That is the end of your suffering.

 

Say sorry....

 The importance of sorry

The three-letter word which becomes such challenge cooperation and being wearied relationship is a big ego. All relationships have problems because of that. The saddest and unfortunate thing is that even present religious leaders also have this ego. That is why they fight with each other to prove, their religion is the best one in this world. Relationships fall apart, only because of this ego. Do you know why? We can not say sorry. most of us do not learn the value of it. It is a magic word when we genuinely speak from the heart.

I have learned very beautiful quotes in my life. Maybe, you will like it or you will say your relationship is out of it. It does not matter. The quote “when you say sorry to someone, that doesn’t mean you are wrong. That just means you value the person more than being right. You are willing to keep the ego aside and transform that ego into humility.

The man says sorry when he is wrong, is called honest. a man who says sorry when he is not sure is called wise, and the man who says sorry when he is right is called husband😂.it just a joke.

 However, if you can say sorry even you know you are right, it means you are a great man .be proud of yourself and try to share your nice attitude with others.

The power of words

Good words are the best medicine

 

Everyone has a hobby that is unique to them and it varies from person to person. When I feel there is an activity which I like to do. That is read a new quote and write them in my quote collection book. Through that, I learn to see this world from another vision.so I hope to share it with you. I wrote one of my favorite quotes and my opinion about that.

 There are three solutions to every problem. Accept it, change it or leave it. If you cannot accept it, change it. if you cannot change it, leave it.

According to the first quote, we can understand how to solve our problems. If we think deeply we can recognize that every problem in our lives inevitably belongs to one of these three parts. Therefore it’s easy to find our own answers and keep going on our life journey. As Buddha said we are suffering because we hold everything tightly. If we try to lose them, then we can feel the comfort of life.

Do not compare yourself to others. There is no comparison between the sun and the moon. They shine when it’s their time.

We can see a nice example in the second quote. As it said sun and moon never compare their values with each other. That is why they always being shine. However, we have a lot of things to learn from it. Honestly think about yourself.do you compare your beautiful talent and everything which you have you will never be happy? There do not compare because you are unique. Try to recognize your values. Not only that show others their talents and appreciate them.

Holding on to your anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.

The above sentence is also very useful for us. Anger is a natural emotion. However, it is not good for anybody. Therefore we have to control our anger and understand the bad effect of it. If we cannot do it there is nothing to differentiate between animals and us. so try to be smart.

Life is an echo. What you send out, comes back. What you give, you get .what you see in others exists you. Remember, life is an echo.it always gets back to you.

Through my life experiences, I prove that this is an eternal truth. If you want something, first you have to bring it to others. The miraculous thing behind that you will get it again as a gift. Therefore be careful about your heart.

 

Procrastination

Procrastination

The most same idea of time management is brain management. Improving to manage your time is the key to managing your future pain.  The person who did this will have less pain in the future. The first thing to do is stop procrastinating. We work in various industries. Therefore our works are different from each other. If you feel that still you work hard .you don't get any success, procrastination can be a reason for that.

The most wonderful thing is we quickly find many facts to procrastinate our work. When we do it we feel some temporary happiness. However, it is a trap. Therefore don't get caught in it. Because of that trap, you lost your dreams, time, and comfort.

According to the life hack web, there are two types of people in this world. The first one is called active person. They try to finish their work as soon as possible and be free. The second one is a lazy person. They always procrastinate their work and always get stressed. There try to do your work on time.

Procrastination is like a credit card .it is so fun until the bill comes. How we can stop this bad habit?

There is a technic called temptation bundling.it means after you recognize your requirement and likes, you can combine both things together.it will motivate you to do your works

Not only that you can start any habit with a two-minute rule. If I describe it, our brain is lazy to start things. So we tell our brain we don't get much time we only get two minutes, then you can start your activity. After you start it, your brain unconsciously would like to continue working.

As I mentioned above, you can find your own technique to be a successful person
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how to fix a broken heart

 how to fix a broken heart

There is a beautiful Arabic quote,it said that if you want to die go and jump to the sea. After a few minutes, you will try in level best to save your life. Because you don't want to kill yourself, you want to kill another thing in your inside. First, we have to fix our broken hearts before talking about nature, success, relationships,s or whatever around us.

We know our heart is broken. But we can't explain it clearly. We failed to find a solution just because we don't ready to build our hearts again. Everybody expects love and affection from their loved ones. If we don't get what we hope, we suffer from pain. Rejection is so painful than everything. As well as it is the best motivation that you have to change your hall life

I don't tell you you must forget everything just now and fix your heart. It's ok you take your time. It can be a day, week, month, year, or rather than it. The most important thing is you must stand up again even you get much time. 

Wherever you are in the world at this moment, if every second that you spent full of tears than smiles, fights than jokes, you have to think twice. You can't let them ruin your life just because you love them. As well as keep this in your mind, there is no rule that you have to stay with the people you love

We are talking about in these days people are looked up in their homes and nature is being resettled. Like that, your motions also must be resettled. Take a deep breath and at least start our mission, this is your mission for yourself.